• Understanding Love: A Therapeutic Look at Sternberg’s Triangular Theory

    Understanding Love: A Therapeutic Look at Sternberg’s Triangular Theory As a counselor, love is a topic that finds its way into many sessions—whether it’s the absence of it, the complexity of it, or the pain of watching it change. One of the most helpful models I’ve come across, both for understanding my own relationships and…

  • Narcissism, Machiavellianism, and Psychopathy: Understanding the Dark Triad in Clinical Practice

    Narcissism, Machiavellianism, and Psychopathy: Understanding the Dark Triad in Clinical Practice In therapy sessions, especially in the context of sexual addiction and betrayal trauma, we often encounter deeply ingrained relational dysfunctions that go far beyond surface-level behavior. These patterns—manipulation, emotional detachment, and domination—are not random. They often stem from personality traits collectively known as The Dark…

  • The Impetus and Solution to Divorce in Modern Culture

    The Impetus and Solution to Divorce in Modern Culture For most of human history, marriage was not a matter of personal fulfillment — it was a practical alliance. Across approximately 6,000 years, unions were formed based on political strategy, financial gain, family legacy, and social survival. Love, as we now understand it, rarely factored into…